Tag: men

The best and worst

Consider this as one man’s viewpoint. I have always thought the best of women is always better than the best of men. Nothing in the best of men approaches the best qualities of women like kindness, generosity, empathy, appreciation, patience, selfless love. Women are also more tolerant of silliness. For example if I post something funny but silly most times women react in a positive way. Possibly it triggers in women memories of pranks of a sibling, child or someone they know and brings a smile. And of course The Raj is always willing to play the lovable rascal 😀 While men are always planning what to eat for their next meal women worry about more “mundane” tasks like putting food on the table and making sure children reach school on time and ensuring the kids have everything they need, be it food for lunch or books and stationery. Does that mean women are always better than mean? Not so soon, my friend 😀 It’s round one to the ladies!

There is always a flip side 🙂 The worst of women can be worse than the worst of men 😦 Qualities like envy, intense dislike can be more deep rooted in women than men. Not to say it’s absent in men. But the most scary trait appears to be women’s lesser ability to forget and let go. Ever faced a situation when you forget a special occasion? Am sure it’s now burned into memory never to be forgotten thanks to friendly reminders every now and then 😀 Why do men find it easier to forget and let go? Elementary, my dear Watson! 🙂 Men have more “important” things to worry about like supporting their favorite sports team, making sure they have the most comfortable part/position of a couch to watch TV when the team they support play while ensuring snacks and favorite drink/s are well stocked and easily available without moving an inch 😀 Everything else can wait 🙂 Can there ever be a more noble pursuit in life than that 😉

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus!

Men and women think and react different. Nothing like a real life example to prove it though, right? 😉 One example: While having a great meal me and son can tell crappy jokes or watch crime scenes in TV series replete with gore and still enjoy the meal thoroughly 😀 Wife’s instant reaction if that happens is “We are having a meal, can you guys stop please?” or “Switch off the TV, watch after we have had our meal” 😀 Looks like women find such sights, sounds or even thoughts quite disgusting and disturbing while eating but men can delink easily and nothing comes in the way of enjoying a good meal 😀

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus”
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” is title of book by John Gray.
There might have been gray areas when the book was originally written.
Experience tells the gray cells function differently and that’s a truism. What say?